Personal Success Do Bsos Prevent It?
Personal Success Do Bsos Prevent It?
What is a BSO? That’s simple it is a big shiny object and it might prevent personal success. You need to learn about BSOs and what they can do for or against your success. For some a BSO might be a new lawn mower. For someone else it might be a new ebook.
A BSO is something that takes away your focus from the project that you must work on in
order to succeed. It can be anything that you spend money on that is not a part of your success plan. There it is the bad four letter work plan. If the BSO will enhance your plan for success than consider buying it. An example might be a farmer with an old tractor that is just barely doing the work in the fields. His BSO might be a big new shiny tractor. When he considers this BSO his choice must be made on facts and not just looking at a new toy. Does this BSO fit in his overall financial plan. After he has clearly evaluated the purchase and it meets the criteria of his plan and he can afford the new tractor, he probably should get it.
BSOs can be found in anybody’s life. I am an internet junkie—ie marketer. My BSOs tend to be the latest push button system to make money on the internet. I am addicted to this stuff. These Big Shiny Objects are a real detriment to my business success. They distract me from what I need to be doing to succeed and mess up my focus. They also mess up my bank account. Some of these internet BSO cost thousands of dollars. The first BSO I ever bought cost me $10,000. It was from Prosper Learning and the promise was that it would make me a successful internet businessman—not. The coaching was lousy and the material not a great deal better than what I all ready knew. I will say that the salesmanship was excellent.
How do BSOs relate to your success? If they distract you from your plan run away—fast. If the BSO will help your success, then consider it carefully. I wrote a book called Fundamentals of Success.
that has some insight into how to succeed in life. Develop a plan and be sure that the Big Shiny Objects enhance your plan. I hate the planning word but that is where all success starts. Do your planning first and then the big shiny objects won’t be a problem.
How To Get Extra Cash Using The Internet
Have you ever wondered how to get extra cash by working at home? With the economy going the way that it is many of us will probably be home because of layoffs anyway.
- How can we make this time productive?
- What does it take to start a home business?
- Am I good enough to run my own business?
- How much will it cost?
- Who will teach me?
- Can I trust the guru’s?
- How can I manage my time to get all of the tasks necessary to start a business done?
- Do I need a mentor?
These are just a few of the questions that you need to answer about starting your own home based business. Here are a few simplistic answers. Unless you are well versed in marketing you will probably need a mentor. This does not mean that you need to enroll in an expensive coaching program. Find someone who does business in a manner that you are comfortable with and copy their style and actions. My favorite is Dennis Becker. He wrote and ebook called 5 Bucks a day. This is a great place to start.
He offers some other great stuff also. If you have some cash to spend on learning the business of internet marketing you need to be part of his insider club.
The concept is to set up any type of marketing site that will earn you five buck a day. Anyone can do this. This is the place to start to begin a home based business.
HOW TO APPLY THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TO YOUR LIFE!
HOW TO APPLY THE LAW OF ATTRACTION
What is the Law of Attraction? Is it just wishful thinking? Have you ever done this? You drive into a parking lot at Walmart and you wish for parking place near one of the doors. Did you get it maybe yes maybe no. Have you ever done this. Say, “My parking place will be in the second row from the food door four spaces in.” I you have and really meant it and expected that to happen then most likely you got that parking space. I have done this so many times my wife laughs and now accepts that we will get a really good parking place. Many time the parking place is better than I spoke about.
This brings me to the Book by James Allen, written in the early 1900’s, AS A MAN THINKETH he states in this book that all things occur first in thought. Scriptures from many religions state the “First there was the word.” From these concepts I conclude that everything is first created by words and thoughts.
The quotation “The man who says he can and the man who says he can’t are both right” is attributed to Henry Ford. In my 69 years of observation of human nature, there has never been an instance that I recall where this quotation is not true. Word for the wise: “Watch what you think and say.” The computer folks best explain this with the phrase “Garbage in Garbage out”. You mind, God and the universe will create what you think.
You need to study the Law of Attraction to use it and to successfully apply it in your life. How can you do this? Step one, get some information on the law of attraction. Step two, decide what you want to attract in your life. The best example of this is how I attracted the wife I needed. These are the things that I did. First I observed as many successful marriages as I could. I considered what the good things that these couples had. At this time I was newly divorced and probably bitter. Then I made a list of the characteristic that I thought my mate should have. The rest is history. I married the lady of my dreams and we have been married for 41 years. Have we ever had any disagreements. Yes, in fact quite often. To me this proves the Law of Attraction. My only regret is that I did not apply this principle more fully in my life. I have included a link to several excellent sources of information on the Law of Attraction.
WILL YOU DO WHAT IS REQUIRED TO SUCCEED?
Are You Willing to Succeed?
Success is a great term but often misused and misunderstood. Who defines your success is it you is it your friends, your wife or your boss. If you are willing to succeed you need to define your own success. You must have the courage to set your own goals and how to know when they have been achieved. You must do this, no one else can do it for you.
Some authors say that success is adjusting your life to the circumstances of your life and defining your success around these events. To some extent this is true, however this falls under the old saying “Keep doing what you have always done and you will get the result you always got.” I like the way that the computer folks put it better, “Garbage in Garbage out.”
You as the individual must assume control of your own life. It is your life take charge and do it. This means that every successful person has had a few hard spots to get through. We all have things in our lives that we must change if we are going to be successful. Some of the key points that we might have to change:
- How we manage our money?
- What do we think of ourselves?
- Have we defined what we want out of life?
- Are we willing to set goals?
- Will we commit to our goals?
- Will we do whatever it takes to achieve our goals.
Are you willing to Succeed?
Do you have worthwhile goals with a time table to their completion written down and tracked? That was a mouthful of truth. What are the key things about our goals that determine our success? Our goals must be OUR goals not someone else’s. Goals must be written. Goals must have a time table for their completion. This means that each goal must have a plan. Do you have a plan for each of your goals? Get one—Now, copy someone else’s or write your own.
If you are willing to succeed you will have done or will do these simple things and follow through to the achievement of your goal. Then you can say that you are willing to succeed.
You can get a head start on success by following natural laws.
Follow this link to success.
ARE YOU WILLING TO SUCCEED
To Be Successful, You Need to Take Charge
Success comes from within. You must look within yourself and determine what it is you want from life. This is a question you must ask your self.
The next question to ask yourself is why do you want it. The answer to this question is much more important than th e defihnition of your personal success. It is the why that will drive you to achieving you personal success. What is this why? The why is not always the obvious thing. It may be something deep down in you sole that you really must do but don’t realize that it is that important to you. I can’t tell you how to discover this why, when you find it you will know it. It will drive you day and night 24/7 sometimes. Let it drive you use the energy that it creates.
The only suggestion that I can give you for discovering the WHY is to take some time to yourself. Take a notepad to a quiet place that you like. Turn off your phone, make sure that your computer is off and that you will not be interrupted for a couple of hours. Just stay there and think. Ask yourself what it is you really want to happen in your life. Think back through your life and look at the things you have done. Use your note book to record any thoughts. I don’t mean an electronic note book. Use the old fashion kind that will require you to write it down. If you don’t discover this WHY the first time try again another day.
When you discover this why write it down. Post it next to your goals. Be sure that your WHY and your goals are in agreement. For more information about your personal success look on this site for Fundamentals of Success. It is available both as an ebook and as a kindle book on amazon.com.
FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS
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Yup thats me. Here are a few facts that you should know about me.
I’m an old Montana Redneck that doesn’t know how to quit.
I have more college hours than most doctors.
I have been through the school of “Hard Knocks”, Twice.
I have raised 5 successful children.
I am mean, ornery and difficult–Just ask any of my hundreds of friends.
I am honest and don’t make promises that depend upon your action.
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This book is about succeeding on your own terms not on the terms of society. Each of us must determine our own goals and success. To do this we need tools to help us to accomplish these tasks and how to control our lives. FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS provides this guidance as you get tools to help you succeed in these areas.
- Time management
- Financial; management
- Personal worth
- Building relationships
- Planning to succeed
- Faith
- The Law of Attraction
- Goal Setting
This book is not a cure all for the problems in society. It will help you to change your life if you read it and apply the ideas that you can use. The I don’t promise life path altering results. More likely you will achieve small permanent changes in your life as you apply the fundametal laws of success to reach your own personal success. What you get from Fundamentals of Success depends upon what action you take.
Your first action is to buy the book and read it.
Family Ties
There is one thing that I have learned in the 69 and a half years that I have been here on the earth. When you really get down to it, the things that really matter are not material. The things that really matter are your relationships with other people. People matter. Our family saw that again this evening. We had a family dinner with all of the children and grand children that are local here at our farm in Benton City. My only regret is that John and Jenn couldn’t be here too.
This meant more to me that a lot of money in the bank. The occasion was to give my children a copy of my book FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS See the link on this blog. If my family will read and apply this book to their lives, then all of them will be a lot happier. This book really is the key to personal success and happiness.
This book is available as a Kindle book on Amazon.com. In the near future it will be available as a pdf file either on this site or Click Bank.
What was really good about this evening is that everyone thought I had an agenda for getting them altogether. We pretty much decided that a Labor Day family get together will be come a tradition. It is a great time of the year–the garden is in full production and the weather here in eastern Washington is always wonderful in late summer. It is a time to build memories and relation ships. I love my family and this proves the accomplishment of one of my life time goals. That goal is to be good friends with my children when they are 25 or older. This proves that success starts at home.
Some Observations of Successful People
I have been observing successful people for the last little while and have noticed one really simple and out standing characteristic that they all have. I’ll bet you can’t guess what it is:
- Is it the amount of money they have?
- Is it their family connections?
- Is it their education?
- Is it their good looks?
- Is it their good luck?
- Is it where they live?
- Is it how they dress?
The single greatest asset that successful people have is what they think of them selves. These folks don’t beat them selves up when a mistake is made and it was their fault. Knowing that they made a mistake hurts, however, they have enough respect for themselves to say, “I screwed up and will do better next time, this was a learning experience.” Without a healthy opinion of themselves they can’t move forward in this manner.
Successful people learn to like themselves. Successful people determine what makes them successful. You can get a lot more information here.
FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS
Sometimes in this life things just pile up. The rent is due and you are broke. The baby needs new shoes and payday is two weeks away. The IRS threatens to take away your house for back taxes. All of us have times like these in our lives. The question is what do we do about them? The bigger question is how do we feel about ourselves when these types of events invade our lives? The book FUNDAMENTAL OF SUCCESS Using Natural Laws will help you to answer these questions.
This book is a life changing manuscript. I won’t make you rich in 30 day or maybe ever if you measure wealth in the contemporary way. That is who has the most money and the most toys. Perhaps we need to measure success in a different manner.
This book looks at the spiritual nature of life from a new perspective. Well, not too new, that perspective is; right is right and wrong is wrong. FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS teaches a new and fresh way to evaluate your success. You choose when you are successful and you do not let the “world” choose for you.
The book is full of great practical knowledge about how to accomplish various critical tasks that are necessary to define your personal roadmap to success. To achieve personal success you must have a roadmap or plan. Writing a mission statement is stressed in the book but you are not told what this should be. The FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS provides a method to get there.
If your finances are in shambles there is a chapter written just for you. Can’t manage your time the then the chapter on time management will enhance your personal success.
Every once in a while a new idea or book pops up that has information that can change your life. This is one of those books. No one will read this book and leave as the same person that entered the book. The concepts and ideas will have an impact on your life. If for no greater reason than to realize that you have been doing a lot of things right in your life.
FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS is a book that you need and will continue to use the rest of your life. It is offered in an Amazon Kindle edition and will be downloadable as a pdf version later.
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